When suddenly there is something wrong with your partner, when you feel everything is not okay, when you start finding loop holes in a relationship and when your partner ignores you, you know it is time to do something to save your relationship.
Check the following following signs to rightly comfirm whether or not your partner is trying to ignore you.
- Your partner does not answer your calls and avoid calling you back
- Your partner spends more time with friends
- Your partner avoids giving you missed calls or sending you text message
- You partner does not look forward to meeting you and gives reasons
- Your partner says that he or she needs some space
- Your partner does not include you in his or her plans anymore.
If you are sure that your partner is avoiding and ignoring you, you need to make a move. Do not overreact, do not be overanxious, the problem with your relationship might be trivial. Once you have identified the problem, it is time to bring it to the notice of your partner. Hard as it may seem and be difficult to do but it can save you many ugly moments.
Communication, commitment, trust and love are the characteristics of a successful relationship. If your relationship is missing even one of these qualities, it may tumble. Love is like a delicate thread and open communication is the best way to keep the bond strong. If you are feeing that your partner is falling out of love, go and talk to him/her. Ask why he/she is ignoring you. He/she may keep his cell phone switched off just to avoid you. Meet him in person. Avoid discussing things over the phone, through text messages, via e-mails or through chats. Do it face to face.
Tell your partner you have noticed that he/she is avoiding you and you need an explanation. Tell him/her that you would not go without getting proper answers to your doubts. Do not say something that will hurt your partner’s feelings. You are still together. Your partner may be going through a bad phase. He may be depressed as he got rejected in the job interview or he is hesitating to tell you something. Find out the root cause of his behavior. Life will surely get on track once again. However remember you do not have to be forceful and keep calling every minute, demanding an explanation.
Give some space
Sometimes emotions are hard to understand. Give your partner some space. Leave him/her alone for a few days. When he/she gets okay, they’ll get back to you. Meanwhile spend time alone. Let your partner spend time alone so he/she will get time to know the situation in better ways. Do not argue or blame your partner. Do not say things like, ‘you have changed’ or ‘you are not the one with whom I fell in love at first sight.’It is said, that time heals. Be patient and see whether things improve.
If you have discussed the reason for his/her disinterest in you, if you have given your partner enough time, if you have waited enough to improve the situation and nothing is coming out of it, then it is better you move on. Let go. If the person is the one for you, they will come back. Otherwise that person is just not meant for you. If it is clear that your relationship is going nowhere and is on verge of break-up, do not cling to it.
Believe in yourself and have patience. Avoid explaining to your partner how nice it would be to be together. Stay calm come what may, you will be glad you did. Trust yourself and go on with life. It is not worth a person who does not need or deserve you.
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