Media personality Toke Makinwa has finally opened up about how her marriage breakup with Maje Ayida has affected her (Maje got his ex-girlfriend of 8 years pregnant last year) and how she hasn’t completely gotten over it.
In her latest VLOG the media personality tells her fans to bear with her as she wants to speak about her marriage from a rational and unemotional stance. She also goes on to say that she is still going through the break up process and it’s been difficult for her.
Read her exact words and watch the video after the jump,
For those who feel I have spoken about my marriage, you know what happened last year. It is with good reason. I want to talk about it from a rational point and not an emotional stance. Cos it’s tough. If you’ve ever been through a separation, heartbreak or whatever, you know how difficult it is. And this was very public and so I went through a lot of stages and I’m still going through it. I can’t sit here and tell you I’m completely whole or this doesn’t affect me anymore. I still feel somewhat shy, I’m trying to come out of my shell about it. Cos I mean you share your life with me and I feel it’s a great disservice to not even talk about it.
So in due time. Just know I’m going through the process & every week I come here I smile, we connect that doesn’t mean I don’t have my own issues. It’s just that I have chosen not to be a victim. I’ve chosen to just rise above it and just keep rising.
Watch the video below
Toke, we hope you heal fast. You are a strong woman.
